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ebernabe
Posted 2/14/2015 1:59 AM (#538289)
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I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

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ThinBlueLine
Posted 2/14/2015 3:58 AM (#538297 - in reply to #538289)
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Has there been any communication?  Obviously you can see if the person has opened your PM and when they've last logged on etc...  I like to give the benefit of the doubt before blasting as you just never know what is going on in someone's life that could've delayed things. 

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Ken Kelley
Posted 2/14/2015 4:17 AM (#538298 - in reply to #538297)
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ThinBlueLine - 2/13/2015 6:58 PM

Has there been any communication?  Obviously you can see if the person has opened your PM and when they've last logged on etc...  I like to give the benefit of the doubt before blasting as you just never know what is going on in someone's life that could've delayed things. 



Patience is a good thing in instances like these. Send some PM's. Check to see when the person logged in most recently. Generally, if you find someone has logged in recently then they may be ignoring your PM's. See if an email is listed in the profile and try that too. If, in a reasonable time, as defined by you, you get no response then you might ratchet things up a bit.
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DonM
Posted 2/14/2015 4:35 AM (#538299 - in reply to #538289)
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I am agree, if you have exhausted all forms of communication with no results, given it time and still no response.......Nuke him
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05Venturer
Posted 2/14/2015 4:50 AM (#538303 - in reply to #538289)
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ebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM

I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

Tracking



If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.
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Cfickter
Posted 2/14/2015 6:00 AM (#538311 - in reply to #538289)
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good advise here, make sure you have exhausted all routes then post it.
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wescat
Posted 2/14/2015 6:00 AM (#538312 - in reply to #538289)
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ebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM

I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

Tracking



If you have given the dude enough time to fulfill his end of the trade and he hasn't gotten it done, leaving negative feedback is the right thing to do IMO. Should he correct the situation, you can always update your feedback.

I have left negative feedback once. Here are some threads where this topic has been discussed:

http://www.cigargeeks.com/community/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=9767...

http://www.cigargeeks.com/community/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=1628...

http://www.cigargeeks.com/community/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=1431...



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SenorPablo
Posted 2/14/2015 6:06 AM (#538314 - in reply to #538289)
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Unfortunately, I think the person you are looking for was banned for the trouble he seemed to thrive on creating with members. It seems in such a classless manner he has chosen to take it out on you. I think some people have found him making an appearance on another site but I cant recall which one. Maybe you should go over there and call him out if someone can remember which site it was - assuming he hasn't been banned from that one by now as well.

-Paul
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StogieDad
Posted 2/14/2015 6:07 AM (#538315 - in reply to #538303)
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ebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM

I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

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If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.


I believe you are correct sir. I don't think negative is gonna help in this case, he has been excommunicated....
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Longhorn
Posted 2/14/2015 6:18 AM (#538320 - in reply to #538303)
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05Venturer - 2/14/2015 7:50 AM

ebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM

I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

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If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.


X2 - if that's the case, then the person doesn't have a way to get on this site and get your address or communicate with you.



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SenorPablo
Posted 2/14/2015 6:22 AM (#538323 - in reply to #538320)
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Longhorn - 2/14/2015 9:18 AM

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ebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM

I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?

Tracking



If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.


X2 - if that's the case, then the person doesn't have a way to get on this site and get your address or communicate with you.



That's a great point. Let me PM you the email he has on file here.

-Paul
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Vroomp
Posted 2/14/2015 6:29 AM (#538330 - in reply to #538323)
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He also has a Facebook Page if you want to call him out on that!

 

  And since he was such a douche bag,,,, I would!!!!

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Posted 2/14/2015 6:40 AM (#538333 - in reply to #538289)
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There is still away to get to the persons info that was on the profile if you go to a thread they posted on say for a pass they started you can click on the name and still see the info including address and Facebook but Vroop has already included the link to his Facebook for you.
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Brlesq
Posted 2/14/2015 7:05 AM (#538336 - in reply to #538289)
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That sucks, but was easy to see coming with that character. I will keep my eyes out for him on other websites. In the meantime, I have sent you a PM with some other links to find him. I suggest you reach out to him on those places since he can't get PMs here.

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shakinghorizons
Posted 2/14/2015 7:13 AM (#538341 - in reply to #538289)
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He has since moved to another forum I'm on, if you'd like me to reach out to him, drop a PM.
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ThinBlueLine
Posted 2/14/2015 7:29 AM (#538343 - in reply to #538289)
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Bruce is the man, what is/was this clowns handle on this site and the site he moved too? No need to keep a secret
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bmac7754
Posted 2/14/2015 7:35 AM (#538345 - in reply to #538343)
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ThinBlueLine - 2/14/2015 10:29 AM Bruce is the man, what is/was this clowns handle on this site and the site he moved too? No need to keep a secret

 I am assuming it was s+j we are talking about. If you click on my database pass and click his name in the forum it has his address and Facebook as well. He may have been banned here but should still honor cigars in a trade and do the right thing.

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Mojo66
Posted 2/14/2015 8:15 AM (#538352 - in reply to #538289)
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He should at least fulfill his side of any deals pending, no matter if he was banned or not. And, I must add, he was banned of his own doing and was given plenty of warnings. No sense making someone else pay for one's own wrong doing, what a do*chebag

Eric, I truly hope this gets resolved fully and to your complete satisfaction.

(had to edit, really meant to say "at YOUR... satisfaction" not "our")

 



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DonM
Posted 2/14/2015 8:36 AM (#538357 - in reply to #538289)
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If he moved on to another site & I knew where, I would call him out there. What do you have to lose, you are already out cigars. Might as well let others see that he is a douche as well.
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Posted 2/14/2015 12:11 PM (#538396 - in reply to #538289)
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Maybe he was confused on how to cherry-pick a simple trade?
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ebernabe
Posted 2/14/2015 12:33 PM (#538405 - in reply to #538289)
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Seems i didnt have to mention any name and you know which unconventional person i was referring to. thanks would explain the no activity.
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ebernabe
Posted 2/14/2015 12:43 PM (#538406 - in reply to #538289)
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Thank for the other links . will start hounding him
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Ken Kelley
Posted 2/14/2015 1:39 PM (#538410 - in reply to #538289)
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Heh! Looks like this s+j yahoo has gone WAY beyond Texlewee. Twinky, and any other number of names in the Hall of Infamy!
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Posted 2/14/2015 2:18 PM (#538419 - in reply to #538289)
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yeah what an ass. so many bombs, trades, pifs, and blind sales go on here w/o a hitch though. glad this dick has left the building for sure! 
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Posted 2/14/2015 2:27 PM (#538421 - in reply to #538396)
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gpd4 - 2/14/2015 2:11 PM

Maybe he was confused on how to cherry-pick a simple trade?


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