I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
Has there been any communication? Obviously you can see if the person has opened your PM and when they've last logged on etc... I like to give the benefit of the doubt before blasting as you just never know what is going on in someone's life that could've delayed things.
QuoteThinBlueLine - 2/13/2015 6:58 PM
Has there been any communication? Obviously you can see if the person has opened your PM and when they've last logged on etc... I like to give the benefit of the doubt before blasting as you just never know what is going on in someone's life that could've delayed things.
Patience is a good thing in instances like these. Send some PM's. Check to see when the person logged in most recently. Generally, if you find someone has logged in recently then they may be ignoring your PM's. See if an email is listed in the profile and try that too. If, in a reasonable time, as defined by you, you get no response then you might ratchet things up a bit.
I am agree, if you have exhausted all forms of communication with no results, given it time and still no response.......Nuke him
Quoteebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM
I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.
good advise here, make sure you have exhausted all routes then post it.
Quoteebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM
I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
If you have given the dude enough time to fulfill his end of the trade and he hasn't gotten it done, leaving negative feedback is the right thing to do IMO. Should he correct the situation, you can always update your feedback.
I have left negative feedback once. Here are some threads where this topic has been discussed:
http://www.cigargeeks.com/index.php?topic=9767.0
http://www.cigargeeks.com/index.php?topic=16289.0
http://www.cigargeeks.com/index.php?topic=14311.0
Unfortunately, I think the person you are looking for was banned for the trouble he seemed to thrive on creating with members. It seems in such a classless manner he has chosen to take it out on you. I think some people have found him making an appearance on another site but I cant recall which one. Maybe you should go over there and call him out if someone can remember which site it was - assuming he hasn't been banned from that one by now as well.
-Paul
Quote05Venturer - 2/14/2015 7:50 AM
Quoteebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM
I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.
I believe you are correct sir. I don't think negative is gonna help in this case, he has been excommunicated....
Quote05Venturer - 2/14/2015 7:50 AM
Quoteebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM
I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.
X2 - if that's the case, then the person doesn't have a way to get on this site and get your address or communicate with you.
QuoteLonghorn - 2/14/2015 9:18 AM
Quote05Venturer - 2/14/2015 7:50 AM
Quoteebernabe - 2/14/2015 3:59 AM
I sent my part of the trade to an individual, but he never sent his part. What is the accepted way to handle this before leaving negative feedback?
Tracking
If the tracking link is correct, the address looks to be someone who is no longer with us.
X2 - if that's the case, then the person doesn't have a way to get on this site and get your address or communicate with you.
That's a great point. Let me PM you the email he has on file here.
-Paul
He also has a Facebook Page if you want to call him out on that!
And since he was such a douche bag,,,, I would!!!!
There is still away to get to the persons info that was on the profile if you go to a thread they posted on say for a pass they started you can click on the name and still see the info including address and Facebook but Vroop has already included the link to his Facebook for you.
That sucks, but was easy to see coming with that character. I will keep my eyes out for him on other websites. In the meantime, I have sent you a PM with some other links to find him. I suggest you reach out to him on those places since he can't get PMs here.
He has since moved to another forum I'm on, if you'd like me to reach out to him, drop a PM.
Bruce is the man, what is/was this clowns handle on this site and the site he moved too? No need to keep a secret
QuoteThinBlueLine - 2/14/2015 10:29 AM Bruce is the man, what is/was this clowns handle on this site and the site he moved too? No need to keep a secret
I am assuming it was s+j we are talking about. If you click on my database pass and click his name in the forum it has his address and Facebook as well. He may have been banned here but should still honor cigars in a trade and do the right thing.
He should at least fulfill his side of any deals pending, no matter if he was banned or not. And, I must add, he was banned of his own doing and was given plenty of warnings. No sense making someone else pay for one's own wrong doing, what a do*chebag :angry:
Eric, I truly hope this gets resolved fully and to your complete satisfaction.
(had to edit, really meant to say "at YOUR... satisfaction" not "our")
If he moved on to another site & I knew where, I would call him out there. What do you have to lose, you are already out cigars. Might as well let others see that he is a douche as well.
Maybe he was confused on how to cherry-pick a simple trade?
Seems i didnt have to mention any name and you know which unconventional person i was referring to. thanks would explain the no activity.
Thank for the other links . will start hounding him
Heh! Looks like this s+j yahoo has gone WAY beyond Texlewee. Twinky, and any other number of names in the Hall of Infamy! :biggrin:
yeah what an ass. so many bombs, trades, pifs, and blind sales go on here w/o a hitch though. glad this dick has left the building for sure!
Quotegpd4 - 2/14/2015 2:11 PM
Maybe he was confused on how to cherry-pick a simple trade?
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :bigthumbs:
Sorry he is taking his frustrations out on you!
I think I can fix this, give me a few days to do some "research"... :angel:
Quotenirab - 2/14/2015 5:05 PM
I think I can fix this, give me a few days to do some "research"... :angel:
Nirab the punk guru of lending a hand...good on YA brother :thumbsup: sorry to hear. I haven't been keeping up much didn't know there was a falling out with him? I need to log in more often lol. Regardless of a banning a good-faith trade should always be honored hope it gets resolved for you
Sorry your trade went south. Hope you can get it figured out.
Thanks, appreciate it.
Quotenirab - 2/14/2015 5:05 PM
I think I can fix this, give me a few days to do some "research"... :angel:
That guy's acting like such a baby, sorry to hear about this Eric, hopefully he'll at least send your sticks back if he wants to nix the trade...
Man! I don't stick my head in here often enough these days... Looks like I missed some drama :sad:
If you don't mind what sticks was he suppose to send you.
I sent him:
Nestor Miranda Doppelbok
CAO America Monument
Diesel Unholy Cocktail
Oliva Serie G Churchill Box Press
Rocky Patel Royal Vintage Robusto
Punch Bareknuckle Elites
I told him just to send something of his choice and he said he'd send from this selection:
http://www.cigargeeks.com/index.php?action=humidors;area=public;member=s%2Bj
Quotehorrido - 2/15/2015 10:42 AM
If you don't mind what sticks was he suppose to send you.
S+J sent a box of cigars. got it 2/27/15
:bigthumbs: Glad to see he made good!
:thumbsup:
Glad to see a happy ending, where is the pic?
Glad to see that he honored his end.
That is good news, glad to hear he sent his end of the deal :bigthumbs:
Good to hear also I know sometimes you can get delayed by all kinds of things but its good to hear it worked out.
3 Reynas (Limited Release White Label) Robusto
Torano Vault Blend A-008 Torpedo
Regius Seleccion Orchant LE 2014 Campana
Rocky Patel 15th Anniversary Sixty
Oliva/ Studio Tabac Master Blends III Churchill
Nestor Miranda Special Selection Ruky Rosado
601 Serie Steel Rod
ACID (by Drew Estate) Krush Gold Sumatra
Al Capone Candela Filtered
Ashton Small Cigars Senoritas
Good to hear. Those look mighty tasty.
Glad you were able to get a positive conclusion.
:cool:
Finally! :-)
:bigthumbs:
Finally! :-)
:bigthumbs:
I thought it just a live and learn and out of the blue this morning, they were in the mailbox.
Good for you, glad you were made whole.
Good for Stephen's Karma as well.
:thumbsup: Glad he finally came through with his end.
:bigthumbs:
That's cool, glad it worked out :smoker:
Good to see those cherry picked cigars made it to someone :lmao:
Glad he finally stepped up and made it right!
Glad Stefan made it right. Was he prodded, or was it of his own volition???
Not sure if it was him or some of my fellow geeks.
QuoteCaveman Steve - 3/1/2015 8:56 AM
Glad Stefan made it right. Was he prodded, or was it of his own volition???
Quoteebernabe - 3/1/2015 2:52 PM
Not sure if it was him or some of my fellow geeks.
QuoteCaveman Steve - 3/1/2015 8:56 AM
Glad Stefan made it right. Was he prodded, or was it of his own volition???
I guess we'll never know . . .