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Non-Cigar Related => How's life? => Topic started by: 1sgjeffward on 07/28/2019 03:55 PM

Title: Sorry but things will be off and on.
Post by: 1sgjeffward on 07/28/2019 03:55 PM
To all yes I'm back now and yes I dropped off the planet. We have been down in Buena Vista with my son and his wife. After almost 3 weeks in the hospital My grandson passed away. Sorry to not have gotten these out before we left but I really did think it would only be one of his 1 week stays that have been going on for over a year now. But not this time. I will get these done the cigars had already been picked out and I was just waiting for end date to get them boxed up and sent. They should all go out this week but please have some patience if it's longer. I will only be pretty much off and on for awhile but will come through on this and passes.
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Post by: Adwinistrator on 07/28/2019 04:43 PM
My condolences.
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Post by: arrow34 on 07/28/2019 05:46 PM
Sorry to hear that, my condolences...
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Post by: headfirst on 07/28/2019 10:01 PM
Jeff I'm so sorry to hear that.   :sad:

For my part, take your time and deal with what life has dealt, this can wait.
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Post by: ninfiction on 07/28/2019 10:57 PM
Sorry for your loss Jeff. Family first, everything else second.
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Post by: appollo on 07/29/2019 05:33 AM
So sorry for your family's loss Jeff.Familly is always first.
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Post by: Beegerply on 07/29/2019 07:25 AM
Jeff sorry to hear about the lose of your Grandson, not much can be said. But my are great Lord watch over your kids and there lose and give them strength during this time.
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Post by: Vroomp on 07/29/2019 01:47 PM
Truly sad news Jeff......  So sorry for your family's loss :cry:
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Post by: BewareDaPenguin on 07/29/2019 02:04 PM
Jeff very sorry to hear this
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Post by: StogieDad on 07/29/2019 02:08 PM
So sorry to hear, prayers to you and your family during these painful times.
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Post by: quickme on 07/29/2019 03:23 PM
My heart felt condolences Jeff to you and your family
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Post by: PETE314 on 08/05/2019 11:09 AM
I don't know what to say...except that I can't imagine what you are going through.  I am praying for you and your family in this very difficult time.
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Post by: nirab on 08/06/2019 01:51 PM
Lots of love n' healing light to you and your family my friend...
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Post by: wescat on 08/06/2019 03:31 PM
Damn sorry for your loss Jeff. If you can, encourage your son and daughter in law to engage this organization:  https://www.compassionatefriends.org/

I know a lady that lost her son, the local compassionate friends chapter played a big part in her learning to want to live again.

You take damn good care Jeff.
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Post by: 1sgjeffward on 08/10/2019 11:17 PM
Thank you all for the kind words and encouragement. Needless to say it has been a very difficult time. As stupid as it sounds cigars have been helping. This dose of not only reality but mortality itself that I have gotten has been rather abrupt and sharp.

I have been digging into the top 2 shelves of my tower and sitting down, relaxing and thinking. Have smoked some good things like my Behike 54 for example and as stupid as it sounds it has been comforting. Smoking all these cigars that I have been saving for some day or special occasion that may never happen has been a kind of therapy. My friends every once and awhile you need to smoke one of those cigars that can't be replaced or that you only have the 1 of. Sit down and enjoy it knowing that you got the chance to smoke it and in a way you're making that day a special occasion.