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Non-Cigar Related => How's life? => Topic started by: gitfiddl on 05/22/2023 01:07 PM

Title: Hardest thing I've ever done
Post by: gitfiddl on 05/22/2023 01:07 PM
I just signed a DNR for my wife Diana.FB_IMG_1684777663805~2_copy_378x456.jpg   We had her taken via ambulance to the ER last night.  She's completely unresponsive and on life support.  She's tired dying.  I love her dearly, but just want her to have some rest and be at peace. The plan is to have her taken of life support and placed in Hospice tomorrow morning.  Please keep her and our our family in your prayers.
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Post by: benchjockey on 05/22/2023 01:52 PM
So sorry, Dave. You and Diana are in my thoughts.
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Post by: Bob Cordell on 05/22/2023 02:29 PM
Wow, Dave, I dont even know what to say other than I'm so sorry for you and the boys.

This makes me sad.
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Post by: Silverstix on 05/22/2023 03:05 PM
Thinking of you and your family.  You are doing the right thing
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Post by: appollo on 05/22/2023 03:41 PM
Dave,so sorry, stay strong my brother
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Post by: Beegerply on 05/22/2023 03:47 PM
Dave I really not sure what to say, except my are great Savior keep her comfortable. My he help you and your son's during this trying time Amen 
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Post by: quickme on 05/22/2023 03:48 PM
You and your family are in my prayers. 
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Post by: junglepete on 05/22/2023 05:48 PM
Sorry for your challenges Dave. Wishing you all the best.
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Post by: headfirst on 05/22/2023 07:01 PM
Praying for you and your dear wife, can't imagine what you're going through.
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Post by: ntanner on 05/22/2023 08:31 PM
So sorry Dave.
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Post by: Brlesq on 05/22/2023 10:56 PM
Keeping your wife, you and your family in our prayers.
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Post by: nickthafish on 05/22/2023 11:48 PM
My prayers are with you, Diana and your family.
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Post by: BewareDaPenguin on 05/22/2023 11:57 PM
Will send some prayers that way, thoughts go out to you and your family
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Post by: SenorPablo on 05/23/2023 05:31 AM
Very sorry to hear Dave.  Will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

-Paul
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Post by: Kid Montana on 05/23/2023 06:47 AM
I'm so sorry my man, thats tragic.  My wish is you find peace quickly, that the bitter pain of your loss passes quickly. 
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Post by: 05Venturer on 05/23/2023 12:25 PM
Sorry to hear my brother.
You and your family are in my thoughts my friend.
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Post by: Cfickter on 05/23/2023 02:37 PM
So very sorry to hear
Lifting your family up in prayers
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Post by: shakinghorizons on 05/24/2023 08:38 AM
Very sorry to hear Dave!
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Post by: Murphy223 on 05/24/2023 09:20 AM
Sorry to hear and hope the family has some peace soon
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Post by: nirab on 05/24/2023 10:14 AM
Lots of love and healing light to you and your family...
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Post by: DRuff on 05/24/2023 12:46 PM
Very sorry to hear this.
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Post by: gitfiddl on 05/26/2023 02:04 PM
Thanks guys.  We had Diana taken off the life support machines and ventilator and transferred to Hospice (still at the hospital) about 10:30am Tuesday morning  She passed away Wednesday afternoon around 3:30.
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Post by: Adwinistrator on 05/26/2023 03:05 PM
Sending my family's thoughts and sympathies to yours.  I hope she finds peace, and that your memories together fill your heart in the most trying times.
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Post by: shakinghorizons on 05/26/2023 05:34 PM
Heartbreaking Dave, I'm so sorry!
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Post by: ntanner on 05/26/2023 08:00 PM
So sorry for your loss Dave.
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Post by: Otter on 05/27/2023 03:11 PM
Sincere condolences my friend
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Post by: Mautrak on 05/29/2023 04:01 PM
Oh, Dave.  I'm so sorry.
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Post by: ninfiction on 05/31/2023 07:33 PM
My condolences to you  and your family Dave.
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Post by: arrow34 on 06/01/2023 10:38 PM
My condolences
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Post by: jharrisx5 on 09/06/2023 10:41 PM
Oh man...my family went through this with my brother.  It's hard, but only you know what is right.  I will gladly pray for her and for you for peace of heart and mind, and for her for rest and to know she is loved.

My heart hurts for you...
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Post by: McBryde on 09/08/2023 08:33 AM
Sorry for your loss Dave. Prayers for strength in this trying time for you and the boys. How many years were you married to her?

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Post by: gitfiddl on 09/08/2023 12:05 PM
Quote from: McBryde on 09/08/2023 08:33 AMSorry for your loss Dave. Prayers for strength in this trying time for you and the boys. How many years were you married to her?

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Ww were together for 33
years.